So, this is it.
No more high school rules about
- how you can dress (= no spaghetti straps, but of course nobody enforced it),
- how to make up gym class (= hand in a media article on health, doesn't matter if you read it),
- no more crazy snow days (they rarely exist in college, you are simply supposed to be in class)
- strict grading (in college the teachers themselves set the policy, ok, it can be even more crazy...)
- no more hall passes or nurse passes (= go to college class unless you are throwing up)
- no more football games or senior prank days (time for more sophistication or real sports...)
This is it. End of kid years. Now it is the real thing. 18 and with a driver's license, no money, but a summer job! Shape your life, get in the wheel barrow (if you like), and do what you think is important, not what some senior speech girl or guy that goes to Princeton think is important. It is up to you now (with some help from us). We think you are amazing.
I think you will struggle with keeping things organized, but that is OK. I think you will make wonderful things that touch people deeply. I think you will do great, important things that make the world a better place, and I am not talking about money, creating a new Facebook, or being a new Steve Jobs. Whatever you do, follow the path that keeps you interested and happy with you. I love that you care about others, especially in this world. More teenagers should be like you.
Congratulations, 12 years of regular school is over, and now you get to do what you love (well, mostly...). Actual, unprotected life is scary, amazing, fun, worrisome, and just how life is. You can handle it, I know it! Du ar underbar. Love, Mom/Mamma
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
So, this is it.