Here are some thoughts I wrote down while flying on a plane recently just after reading about the last ever NASA shuttle mission taking off... (Update and clarification - the quoted text is what I wrote myself that day on a scrap of paper, so I am quoting myself.)
"Nobody dares to think big anymore, to dream about the future of mankind. There is no more manned space exploration, no more belief in world peace and prosperity.
Instead we hunker down, focus on our families and homes, and we distrust politicians, government, and the future. We can pickles, grow vegetables, save money, are happy to have any kind of job at all, and become more and more disillusioned with how the world works.
We mentally run away from the scary reality of joblessness, climate and weather disasters, the latest reports of food-borne illnesses or worldly disasters by focusing on the small and the personal - update Facebook, take a photo and post it on Flickr, and write about our kids on our blogs. Or follow 'reality' shows on TV as entertainment, shows that are as far removed from reality as you can get.
You want a reality show? Follow a newly graduated PhD trying to get a job. Or a person trying to communicate with a mortgage broker or customer service rep from GE. Or survive a several day blackout during an ice storm in New Jersey, without electricity, internet, or cell phones. Most people would despair.
People use their iphones and other smart internet-connected toys as teddy bears and security blankets to feel relevant, safe and comfortable, but this is so far from the real truth as you can get. This need for false connectedness is like a drug that make you waste your time and not be part of the real reality.
People are desperate, disillusioned, depressed, degraded and (sometimes) deranged. Nobody, except the fools and the overoptimistic, believes that the future is better than now. And now is not really good in the world."
So, what do we do about this? How do we make the world a better place? I hear people all the time say: "There is nothing we can do", "The politicians will never change anything". But we have to do something or we are just giving up, right? But what? The first step is to recognize problems and then to talk about them and then do something about them. But do what? I don't know. I live in a country where the common sense doesn't seem welcome among politicians anymore.
Note - the text above are about general people, not about any particular persons or families. I am describing the realities I see, not criticizing anybody for feeling a certain way. Believe me, I understand the despairs. But maybe our motto should be "Get real" or "Be real". That would be a good thing.